During my Student Exchange Program in
One day, back in the University campus, I met one of the Japanese exchange students, A. She appeared to be serious and said that she wanted to talk to me regarding an issue. I was alarmed and proceeded to ask her what it was. She said that she was feeling uncomfortable that my Singaporean friends and I were talking in Singlish and Chinese at the parties. I was shocked to hear that from her and quickly apologized for our insensitivity. I then told her that we were unaware that she was feeling like that and we had no intentions of excluding anyone from our conversations. After that incident, we kept reminding ourselves not to talk in a way that will exclude other people at the parties. Fortunately, that incident was not blown out of proportion and I remained good friends with them ever since.
Here's a picture of me and the Japanese exchange students when we were on a cruise to see dolphins!